Performance is pretty good in Apache 2.4, but compare RAM usage alongside NGINX and you'll notice that NGINX's event based threads approach takes a big dump all over Apache's separate process lets consume every bit of available RAM the server has until it starts throwing errors and filling log files. Apache is getting better, but it's not really on par with NGINX (yet, but it will be).
You didn't hear what he said, he's specifically not talking about the memory hogging process bases mpm. You seem to think Apache only works that way, but the worker modules are pluggable.
He's talking about Apache MPM Worker which while offering better performance over the traditional Apache MPM Prefork because it's threaded based like NGINX is, it still consumes more RAM than NGINX does, so my point remains...
> NGINX's event based threads approach takes a big dump all over Apache's separate process lets consume every bit of available RAM the server has until it starts throwing errors and filling log files.
No your point doesn't stand, your point is completely wrong because you don't know what you're talking about. Go back read the crap you wrote before claiming your point still stands.