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		dartharva 55 days ago \| parent \| context \| favorite \| on: STFU Speaking up would have a higher failure rate. Speaking up overtly stimulates the annoying person's defensiveness and propensity to challenge back. Subtle manipulation always works better.

dystopiandevel 54 days ago [–]

Be assertive and transparent and then use the app. Otherwise you are just being passive aggressive.

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