I have 4. All mom’s side. I’m only grandchild on dad’s side. My only child is a male and carries my name which is really rare and would have ended with me. The burden now lies on him. He has 1 cousin on his mom’s side and because we had him later in life, with some bad luck, he lost both his grandfathers before he was even born.

It’s wild to me. I try to be thoughtful in building deep family-like connections outside of actual families to hopefully help compensate. My grandpa was an huge formative influence on me and that’s the part that saddens me the most (he doesn’t even know what having a grandpa is like).

Also our holiday gatherings aren’t huge, usually 10-20, but the family that comes is pretty far removed from nuclear just because there’s not a lot of us.