Sure, it takes two to tango, and some of the effect may be on the man's side as well. But if you're at all tuned into popular culture, it's pretty clear that from a dating/marriage perspective, a lower earning man is at a huge disadvantage. Whereas this isn't really the case for a woman. Setting studies aside, just look at what people say in the real world: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/154w09d/do_women_fi...