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Yes, arguing in good faith is good but how do you deal with people who have no interest in arguing in good faith? I encounter this all the time and I just choose to stop engaging.


i've taken a clue from Jessica Livingston. she responded once to bad faith communicators by saying (not a quote): "i'm not inclined to engage with people who are purposefully trying to misunderstand me."

it both disengages you from the situation while also calling out the bad faith actors.


> how do you deal with people who have no interest in arguing in good faith?

The choices critically depend upon context:

1. Is the dispute one-to-one, or is there an audience? With skill, you may be able to turn the opinion of a reasonable audience against your bad-faith interlocutor.

2. Is disengaging a practical option, or are you compelled to continue the discussion under threat of yet more unpleasant consequences?

So, I'd say that's 2*2=4 "game" scenarios, each fundamentally distinct.




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