To anyone dissatisfied with the ethical lapses of GitHub and GitLab, check out sourcehut [1]. It's an independent Git/Mercurial host (plus builds, issue tracking and a bunch of other features) made by Drew DeVault (creator of sway). Their business model is "customers first, investors never" [2]

(I have no affiliation — I was just impressed by it when I moved a couple repos over after getting frustrated with GitHub and GitLab.)

[1] https://sourcehut.org

[2] https://sourcehut.org/blog/2019-10-23-srht-puts-users-first/