I can care less about what people think, I have an unbreakable mindset to protect my dignity, honor, and freedom of speech. I will never need psychological help because not one person on this planet can mentally/emotionally damage me. I persevere as a software engineer / FPS gamer / cyclist / drone racer / graphic designer / web developer (C#, T-SQL, ECMAScript 8, SASS) / mobile app developer (react native), open source developer.
I don't allow myself to get into extremely stressful situations. If anyone tries to force me into a stressful situation, I refuse. I will not be a "hero" unless someone's life is in danger. I am willing to quit my job to prevent myself from being overwhelmed by stress. I have a certain level of expectations when it comes to how I am treated as a human being and how I treat others. I am not responsible for anyone's "feelings" except my own, therefore, even though I respect one's feelings, I am willing to disregard them to prevent my own suffering. My mental health is more important than anyone else' mental health because I am human, humans can be ruthless individuals, and so I must protect myself from the ruthlessness of this world. If the world was different, let's say, like it is in Bhutan where they have an economy based on happiness instead of export, I would be more willing to be emotionally vulnerable towards other people, but this modern world of ours is in fact ruthless.
I don't allow myself to get into extremely stressful situations. If anyone tries to force me into a stressful situation, I refuse. I will not be a "hero" unless someone's life is in danger. I am willing to quit my job to prevent myself from being overwhelmed by stress. I have a certain level of expectations when it comes to how I am treated as a human being and how I treat others. I am not responsible for anyone's "feelings" except my own, therefore, even though I respect one's feelings, I am willing to disregard them to prevent my own suffering. My mental health is more important than anyone else' mental health because I am human, humans can be ruthless individuals, and so I must protect myself from the ruthlessness of this world. If the world was different, let's say, like it is in Bhutan where they have an economy based on happiness instead of export, I would be more willing to be emotionally vulnerable towards other people, but this modern world of ours is in fact ruthless.
...and that concludes my rant.